MAKING FRIENDS WITH MONEY WORKSHOPS Even abundance can bring its own headaches. Some of the most frequent reactions to having sufficient money are guilt and shame – and telling yourself that it doesn’t mean anything and trying get rid of the stuff. And then there’s the added responsibility of trying to ‘do the right thing’. While that sort of practical counselling is supportive, unfortunately it doesn’t deal with the underlying issues. And what you have recognised in the past you will almost certainly recognise in the future… Robin believes that most financial issues stem from the way we feel about money. Which is mostly a combination of fear, shame, greed and guilt. So if you can recognise WHY you make the decisions you do, and what it costs you on an emotional level (as well as on a financial one) you’re on the way to making REAL changes. And beyond… “The Day Two workshop utilises, in a pragmatic and spiritual way, the changes people have found within themselves,” says Robin. “Day One is about CONTEXT. But Day Two is about FOCUS.” Natalie Savona goes for a financial make-over at a Making Friends With Money workshop - run by ReConnect columnist Robin Currie HAVING met Robin Currie several times before turning up to his workshop, I was fully prepared to expect the unexpected. If you have any curiosity or unease about your relationship to money, I’d suggest you put yourself in the same position. But don’t expect Robin to stand at the front of a room, with charts and lists of how to invest money wisely; or even how to acquire it in the first place; to give hot tips on the next big money-spinner; to impart wisdom on the secrets of riches that are eluding you. The wisdom Robin will bring out is your own. In encouraging you to make friends with who you really are, with the obstacles you put up to your own success and ease with life, he helps you get to the nub of your own relationship to money. “Money is like a sponge,” he explained. “It will absorb anything you want it to.” Whether that be your reasons for successful or failed job applications, blossoming or floundering relationships, whatever - money can be seen as a metaphor for other aspects of our lives. The group of participants spanned an age range of about 50 years, spent their time on vastly differing occupations (a mother, a painter, a scientist, a nutritionist…) and came with individual expectations. Yet, as with many workshops, the group dynamic was crucial - sharing our common human experiences and therefore ultimately shared wants and needs. Robin skilfully makes everyone feel comfortable, yet challenged, and ultimately inspired by our own ability to have what we want. So don’t go to Making Friends With Money for hot pension scheme tips (see Robin for an individual consultation for such prosaic matters, like I did), but do go for insights into how to use your money sponge to mop up what you really want in life. Friends with money online discussion group
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